Last week I went to a concert that featuring a jazz pianist and an artist. While the pianist played, the artist painted on her iPad, which was connected to a projector and projected on a big screen. The artist created pictures based on the music, and I think the pianist also created some tunes based on the art. It was all very abstract, especially the art. During the concert I was looking for patterns, shapes or anything in the art that looked like something familiar. I didn’t find much, but enjoyed the experience anyway.
Afterwards I got thinking about patterns and familiarity and came to the conclusion that we tend to feel most comfortable with the familiar – familiar people, things, places, sounds, etc – i.e our comfort zone. When we encounter the unfamiliar we try to find anything in it we can make sense of. We look for patterns, and anything else we can recognise. If we cannot find such things we may decide that the unfamiliar is not for us.
Abstract art and some forms of music, for example, are sometimes said to be “challenging”, and I think this is because there is little in them that is familiar, and this is why it takes longer to appreciate them – we need longer to find any patterns they may contain and for them to become familiar.
When we first encounter a foreign language everything is unfamiliar, and this can put a lot of people off. However a language that has a lot in common with your mother tongue can be easier to learn than one that has little or nothing in common with it as you will find more that is already familiar, and probably feel more comfortable with it.
To become familiar with the patterns, sounds, words and structures of a foreign language we need to get a lot of exposure to it – i.e. listen, read, and watch films and TV programmes. Doing these things alone is not enough to learn a language – you need to speak it and maybe write it as well – but they will make it more familiar to you.
The more you learn of a language, the more patterns you will spot within it, and the easier it will be to spot those patterns. The patterns might be how words are put together to form sentences, how grammatical changes are applied to words, how words can mean different things in different contexts, how speakers interact with one another, what topics are appropriate to different situations, and so on.
So you may need to get outside your comfort zone at first, but over time your comfort zone will expand to include the new language.
I agree, the “comfort zone” applies to pretty much everything in this life. When I moved for the first time, it was across the Atlantic. After initial thrill of “everything is new and exciting”, I started getting tired of speaking the language that up to that point had been my “school” language (class time and some homework), getting tired of landscape and climate, which was very different from what I was used to, not having any family or at least an “old and trusted” friend, tired of new foods, etc. After a while, when I was somewhat comfortable in the new situation, I had to move again. This time it was across the continent. I disliked the city I ended up living in just because everything was again unfamiliar, stressful, and difficult. And again, my “comfort zone” was adjusted with time as I learned my way around the new places, my new jobs, met some new friends. By now I know that it is good for us to get out of our “comfort zone” to learn something new and expand our horizons.